Explaining therapy to a child can be tricky or even a little confusing.
As you prepare to come in for your first session of counseling, you and your child may have questions like: What is counseling? Why are we going? What is going to happen?
Below are my answers to some common questions about counseling. It is important to be clear and honest with your child so that they can be confident there is nothing to be worried about or afraid of.
What is counseling?
I like to explain counseling to
Why are we going?
A child counselor is trained specifically to work alongside kids and parents to teach
What is going to happen when I get to counseling?
This answer really is specific to your therapist and will depend on their approach.
At Kid Matters Counseling, all our child therapists are trained
At Kid Matters Counseling a therapist (new friend) will come out to greet you and your child in the waiting room at the child’s first session. Share with them,
“Today you are going to play with a new friend. I went to meet her last week and she has a whole room full of toys! I can come in with you the first time if you like or you can go in by yourself. I will stay in the waiting room the entire session and wait for you. At the end of your special play time I will have a short turn talking with our new friend and then we will go home.”
To describe the play therapy process without a specific approach or counselor known there is a great book that can help describe what may happen at
The start of a counseling relationship, just like any new relationship can feel scary, especially for a child entering an environment they’re not familiar with. Having a few of your questions about the process answered prior to a first session lessens the amount of ‘unknowns’ for everyone involved.
If you have any additional questions or concerns regarding how to explain counseling to your child or about how to help your child navigate the beginnings of a new counseling relationship Kid Matters therapists are just a phone call or email away! We are here to help.
– Susan Stutzman, LCPC, RPT
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Owner | Child Therapist | LCPC, RPT
I use the therapeutic power of play and child development research to achieve short-term, practical solutions to restore emotional stability for the child and peace in the home.
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