(This article first appeared over at MyKidList.com).
Self care is so important as a parent. And now, more than ever, you need to care for yourself in order to best sustain the kiddos in your care. Think of your self care as important as the flight attendant directions “if you are traveling with a minor, put the oxygen mask on yourself first before you put theirs on.”
For even more ideas on ways to lean in and connect with your kids, I’ve put together a simple and free 5 day connection challenge for parents that help you make a meaningful connection with your child.
If you need more support as a parent and it would be helpful to talk with someone further about parenting ideas or for more helpful tips to help you cope with all types of feelings please reach out.
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2. Neural Correlates of Dispositional Mindfulness During Affect Labeling. J. David Creswell, Baldwin M. Way, Naomi I. Eisenberger, and Matthew D. Lieberman. Psychosomatic Medicine 2007;69(6):560-565.
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