Parents have the opportunity to help their children develop the most important skills they will ever learn: the ability to speak, read, and write.  

Developing language is a complex process where parents and their children have essential and intertwining roles.  

Here are some simple suggestions to increase your child’s communication skills:

1. Communicate with your child in the language you are most comfortable using.

Match what you say to what is happening in the moment: describe what you are doing, what your child is doing, and what your child sees. Use longer sentences as your child grows older.

Repeat important words.

Use a variety of words.

Ask open-ended questions (beyond yes/no). Encourage your child to ask you questions.

Tell stories and read to your child as much as you can. Ask questions and talk about what is happening. Read to your child in each language he or she is learning.

2. Listen and respond to your child.

Expand your child’s message. Repeat an idea they’ve said with more words.

Don’t interrupt to correct speech sounds, just say the sounds correctly when you talk.

3. Use routines: same actions, sounds, and words in the same order.

4. Help your child listen. Give directions for him to follow.

5. Have your child’s hearing tested if you have to repeat a lot or use a loud voice.

6. Set limits for screen time (TV, iPads, phones, etc).  Make time for talking, reading, and playing together.

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Sometimes parents can do all the right things and their child still does not develop their skills as expected.

If you are concerned about your child’s communication abilities, use our speech and language milestone checklist to see if they are on track.


Photo by Shelby Deeter on Unsplash

Apel, Kenn; Masterson, Julie.(2012). Beyond Baby Talk From Speaking to Spelling: A Guide to Language and Literacy Development for Parents and Caregivers. New York, NY. Three Rivers Press.

Weitzman, Elaine.  (2017) It Takes Two to Talk.  Toronto, Ontario. Hanen Early Language Program.

Jennifer Houch

Jennifer Houch

Speech-Language Pathologist

I equip children with the tools needed to increase their speech and language skills so they can reach their full potential socially and academically.

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